{"id":3748,"date":"2021-11-10T13:41:01","date_gmt":"2021-11-10T13:41:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yourmediator.ie\/?page_id=3748"},"modified":"2022-05-16T12:16:18","modified_gmt":"2022-05-16T12:16:18","slug":"what-is-mediation","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/yourmediator.ie\/index.php\/what-is-mediation\/","title":{"rendered":"What is mediation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.84)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/yourmediator.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/the-mediator-min.jpeg&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;multiply&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; header_font_size=&#8221;55px&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]<h1><span color=\"#ffffff\" style=\"color: #ffffff;\">What is mediation<\/span><\/h1>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||0px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Poppins|200|||||||&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221;]<h2><strong>What is mediation?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>It is not a cult. Nor is it magic. Not even a common \u201cmind trick\u201d.<\/strong><br \/> It is a process to solve a conflict; to agree a solution with a little help of a mediator.<br \/> Sometimes you need to say things out loud to somebody impartial. Sometimes, you need to hear from someone else the question, which you never asked yourself. Sometimes, you need<br \/> an opportunity to discuss it in order to come up with a solution.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mediation is confidential<\/strong> \u2013 what happens in mediation, stays in mediation. Just like in Vegas.<br \/> Mediation is also voluntary \u2013 which is the difficult part. How to get both sides of an argument<br \/> (bitter as it may be) to sit at one table? That is our job.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Poppins|200|||||||&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221;]<h2><strong>How to make them agree on something?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Well, that is our job. We are here to manage and facilitate a productive environment where everybody can put their heads together in a respectful, confidential and non-judgmental environment to come up with what is most important for you: a solution.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not just a solution:<\/strong> a self-determined solution. A solution you are happy with \u2013 whatever it may be!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Isn\u2019t that what\u2019s it\u2019s all about?<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#f9f9f9&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row module_id=&#8221;mediations&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Poppins|200|||||||&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221;]<a href=\"#mediations\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Mediation is a process<\/strong> of resolving disputes without involving the Court system. Here, the parties, in confidence, thrash out the dispute and with the help of the mediator find a resolution. The mediator does not make the decision for the parties but helps the parties to channel the flow of discussion and resolve the problem.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">The result of a mediation is an agreement, a resolution, sometimes even a transformation of a relationship. Although your dispute is unique to you, the mediation process has already successfully resolved disputes just like your. It is cheaper than litigation and significantly faster. It is flexible both in timeline and location.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">Mediation can be a step up from negotiations \u2013 it has the potential to create new relations after the dispute has been resolved. It is not a cult. Nor is it magic. Not even a common \u201cmind trick\u201d. It is a structured discussion where parties start from the problem and move to resolution.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">The mediated agreement is enforceable just like any other. You can always walk out and pull the plug. No hard feelings. If the parties fail to come up with a solution \u2013 whatever has been said in mediation must not be mentioned in later proceedings \u2013 that\u2019s why mediation is risk free; it is private and confidential. If it fails, it is like it never happened for nearly all intents and purposes. If it works, the problem is solved much faster and cheaper than litigation<\/span><\/a>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_font=&#8221;Poppins|200|||||||&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Playfair Display||||||||&#8221;]<h2><strong>Who is a mediator?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>YourMediator is a qualified and trained professional<\/strong> who assists the parties to a dispute in reaching an agreement on how to resolve the dispute. 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